Dear future husband ❤️

Hey everyone,

How are you all doing? I feel so excited reaching out to you and I hope you are excited too. So rewind back to the space between when dear future wife was published till now, a whole lot of people have been asking; where’s dear future husband? And I’ve had to be encouraging them that it’s this weekend and finally the weekend is here,so also ‘dear future husband’🤵

So before excitement pushes you forward to the letters,get yourself together guys because these ladies aren’t here to play with you all. Ready! Go!

#Letter 1

Dear future husband,
It’s funny how I have no idea who you are but you already have a place in my heart. Until now, I’ve never thought of what to say to you. I’m learning a lot however, growing in all aspects of life by the grace of God who is grooming me to be a wife and mother to you and our children. If I’m certain of anything, it’s that you are also being trained, disciplined and groomed by the Father to be a husband and father just for me and our children unborn. You will not meet me half made. I will not do anything to jeopardize our future together. I will remain submissive to you. I will support you. I will remain faithful to you. I will respect you. I will love you unconditionally. My love, build, build yourself and as you build, yield. Obedience is better than sacrifice. Do well not to sacrifice our future on the alter of nothingness. Hold steadfast and when you feel like giving up remember we have an assurance of what is to come (Jeremiah 29:11; For I know the plans I have for you says the Lord thoughts of good and not of evil to bring you to an expected end). We have crucial roles to play in each other’s lives and together, I know you know already. I was made for you and only you and you were made for me and only me. You will only ever come second to God in my life. I’m looking forward to spending a long life with you because we have so much to do together. As I write this I’m surprised at how much my heart is bursting with love for you. Waiting patiently and excitedly to meet you.
Loving you dearly.
P.S; I want a big family.👨‍👩‍👧

p.s I want a big family 👨‍👩‍👧

#Letter 2

Dear Future Husband,
You have no idea how much I have been waiting for you but the good news is that I will continue to wait patiently for you because I know that you are taking your time to be that perfect husband before you finally come to me. It gladdens my heart to know that you will be a man that does not walk in the counsel of the ungodly ones nor sit in the seat of the scornful.
Just know that I have so much love to offer to you, I have so much in me that I want to share with you alone and I will continue to wait patiently for that one person that I am ready to give my all to. I also want to inform you that I am doing my very best to be that perfect best friend, partner, wife, and an amazing mother to our princes and princesses. I am working on myself to be a proverbs 31 woman. I have been praying for you and I will continue to intercede for you until we get old together and until the lord calls us.
You have no idea how much I have imagined us together. Praying together, fellowshipping together, raising up vessels of honor unto God together, winning souls for Christ together and doing virtually everything together. I promise to be a submissive, a loving wife and mother, I promise to stand by you in all circumstances and conditions. I promise to be at my best all the time. I trust that God will see us through all our ups and downs.
Dear hubby, just know that I love you with the whole of my heart and nobody else can take your place or replace you. I just pray that God fastens your feet to come and meet me. May God continue to bless the work of your hands. I patiently await your coming my love and my king.
Yours faithfully,
Your patiently awaiting queen.

it’s you and I hubby!

#Letter 3

Dear Future Husband,
This is 12:07am and I am here writing under a rechargeable lamb. I’m sure you are wondering what I’m doing by this time awake? Well I was going through my phone, listening to some Christian messages and later on decided to read a book when my thoughts of you took hold of my head. I just wonder what you look like right now. Are you tall, dark or fair in complexion, muscular, broad chest. Truly I imagine what you do look like but I guess some day time will reveal just who you are. I’m here thinking of how I would meet you too because this girl here is not someone who spends much of her day outdoors. Would you break the door to my house and find me (laughs) or will I be out one day and mistakenly I will trip and fall and you will catch me or are we both going to be guest speakers at a conference and after that we do some chit chat and boom we would start striking a conversation? (Nah, movie scripts lol). Don’t mind my thoughts jare. Time will tell and the one who has us engraved in the palm of His hands knows how to put things in order just like how he arranges the stars everyday in different positions so will he align our paths together.
It might be hard for both of us now and we might be frustrated of not meeting each other yet but hey we are going to wait, I’m going to wait. I might enter some relationships that may not be so good or some that will be a stepping stone to meeting you and I may have to remain single for a while but hey boo we’re going to be regardless. We’re going to walk together, grow together, learn together, build together, fight for our love to
stay alive when the tempest comes, get mad at each other, laugh at our jokes together, grow old together but most importantly we’re going to walk on the paths that God would want us to and remember your baby girl will always be by your side as we go on this journey.

Together, we will grow old.

It’s quite hard and frustrating that I can’t be with you right now but you know what they say “that the best things take time to come” and if i would have to wait and keep building myself here then shikenan, your girl would be here(smiles).
Let me share some of the things I like to do and all. I love to read good books, write, sing, I love songs with good beats and lyrics, I love to cook sometimes and I love good food but you see this your girl she doesn’t like to eat(lol), I love to draw sometimes, I love playing and teaching children. I’m not an outdoor person, I prefer indoor stuff. I would prefer a candle light dinner on the top of the roof or sit on the grass and spend a lovely time than a restaurant with so much noise. Let me stop my listings for now, when I get to see you I will tell you the rest and you get to find out other things about me. What are your likes though, how do you view the world, what fascinates you and what are your interests?.
Babe, I keep praying for you that you will be the man God has chosen for me, I keep praying for me that I also will be that woman you pray to find and a good one at that, I keep praying for Us that we would walk together in God’s purpose for our lives. I pray that at the time we would find each other and take on the road of MARRIAGE that the love we will share will be based on the teachings of how God wants us to and not how the world wants us to. I pray that the day we take this road of forever that we will start as friends and grow and become partners that God has instituted in the heavens. I pray that whatever you are doing, may God’s light shine forth for you. As God moulds you to be that man he wants you to be, I pray he provides you with everything beautiful and pleasant.
My king, prophet and priest I do not know you but I have decided to give God all my heart desires for a partner and I know with time he will give me a “YOU”(winks). Your girl will wait and trust and pray till we find US.

Your girl.

My king,my priest,my prophet.

Waow! The guys reading this,I hope at this point you are not still doing hard guy o 🤣. Because dear hard guy, your bride is talking😁. Hope you are done with the little pause to meditate on these letters 😁, so let’s keep going.

#Letter 4

#letter 4

Dear future Husband🥰🥰
I don’t know you yet. I don’t know what state you’ll come from, your skin complexion, how you’ll look, your love language, your background but I know this for sure, I’m going to love you🤗 because I’ve been learning from the best lover🥰, the originator of love, infact he’s love himself. He set the bar so high he died for me so you should know that I’m not settling for less😅.
Future husband I pray for you always. I pray that as I’m working hard in building a relationship with God you’re doing same, I pray that you’re shining your light so bright and people are seeing your good work and glorifying my father who is also your father😅😅, I pray that as I’m working hard to stay holy you’re doing same, I pray that in whatever you do that you excel, I pray for our future and our future children. I’ve been praying for you and I’ll keep praying for you😘😘
I don’t know what sweet name I’ll call you but this I’m sure you’ll be a man after my heart, I’ll be a woman after your heart and together we’ll strive towards being a couple after Gods heart. You might not be perfect but you’re perfect for me. Please be tall,fine and have plenty money😂😂. I promise to love you more than I love coke😅😅😍😍.
Your babygirl 💞💞💞

I promise to love you more than Coke

#Letter 5

Dear Future Husband,

I don’t know if I have met you already or if God will cross our path sometime in the future. But I’m doing my best to live according to God’s will so I can’t imagine who the man is that He has set for me.
I know you’re going to be an amazing Man of God ; I am so excited to grow with you in a spiritual way and I also know that you are going to be very handsome and very hard-working there’s no doubt that.
I don’t care if you have stumbled before or your still stumbling because I know God has a great plan for the both of us and I can also assure you that God is teaching me his way of love so I can truly love you. I don’t know where you might be right now or where you base currently but what I do know is that we are designed to complete each other.
I’m praying for you daily that God will be with you no matter the situation, to comfort you, protect you and strengthen you because like my dad will always say it’s not too early or too late to start praying for your life partner and I agree with him on that and that’s why I’ll never stop interceding for you.
You will be mine and I’ll be yours and together we will be each other’s cure, the cure to sadness, heartbreak and loneliness we both had to endure. Life goes on in some sort of way though I know it won’t truly start until you carry me away.
Till then don’t be weary my love, for our father is watching over us and he is preparing us to be a “We” 🤗❤️. Waiting is hardest of all but I assure you one day , when the harvest is ripe there will be no hindrance whatsoever. One day together we will stand forever and ever till the end .
So for now I’ll sit back down and wait till he knows when, I love you sweetheart till then.

       With Love🥺
           Your Future Wife✨
I love you sweetheart ❤️

Well oh well, that is the last letter for today. It’s been exciting and intriguing reading through these letters. I just hope someone out there is encouraged not to stop waiting and building for his bride and that someone out there who has given hope on love and been loved sees through the hearts of these letters to find hope and see the greater love of God that no man can give. So to the men, if you have not been focused and intentional in your preparation to receive your bride,you better start now and to the ladies, if have not began your waiting and sexual purity journey,now is the time to start because you will appear soon spotless before your bride groom🤵.

Thanks for stopping by to read and follow. So if you haven’t followed,liked,commented and shared, what else are you waiting for🤔. Don’t forget to check out previous posts,it just might be for you or someone else😁

See you soon for ‘dear future husband ‘2. I love you all.❣️❣️


Hey everyone,

I hope we are doing fine and well in this period and season.

Last week was indeed one of mystery letters from young men who are expecting to see their brides soon. And believe me when I say that from some of the feedback I got, alot of ladies were swept off their feet and left emotional. I’m happy you could connect to the heart of the letters.

Thus,you couldn’t have just spent time reading through the letters of anonymous men to just laugh about it and gain nothing from it. So I decided it will be great to write a note to these men who have expressed their live and how expectant they are for their future partners. I hope you get to learn with me from these letters and start working on them.

Dear expectant groom, I’ve seen how much you love and cherish your bride to be through your letters. I’ve practically felt your heartbeat as you scribbled those words to express your expectations and longing to behold your bride. But one question that should come to mind is;how prepared are you to receive your bride?

Yes, you’ve made known your intentions and pledge but how truly prepared and set are you to create a safe haven for her. Before you beat yourself to start thinking too far, remember the scripture records that Jesus Christ told his disciples that he was going to go and prepare a place for us and once he’s done,he will come and take us home. Exactly,that right there is it. That is the analogy that describes your preparedness and how well it is done.

Take the place that Christ spoke about to be PURPOSE. Thus,as expecting grooms,have you found a place? A place not just for you but big enough to contain yourself and coming bride. Because until you have found purpose and gotten understanding of it and how to function,you do not have a place for your bride.


Genesis 2:18 And the Lord God said,it is not good that the man should be alone;I will make him an helpmeet for him(KJV)

Before this statement,Adam was already taking care of the animals and tending the garden. You must find purpose and start walking in it before setting out to look for a damsel. She should find a place to stay and dwell when she comes and the only way she can find that space is if you have discovered your reason for existence which then exposes you to places where you need help. It is only then that she will come and fit into the place(purpose) you have discovered and then you both can dwell there in.

Finally, beyond finding purpose pursue it’s understanding because it is possible that you have discovered purpose but do not have an understanding as to how to go about it. This must be addressed to certify your preparedness for your bride. And if course,the reason of existence cannot be far fetched from the author of your existence (God).

So my dear,as you write to your bride, find God, discover purpose, understand purpose and begin to walk in it because it is until then that you will have been qualified to be prepared to host your bride and create a safe haven for you both to dwell and multiply on all sides.

Find God, discover and understand purpose,walk in it

Until your knees have been bent before God to find purpose and walk in it,never should those knees hit the ground to seek a damsel

_k.bado blog

Thanks for taking time out to read. Don’t forget to like, comment,share and follow. ‘Dear future husband’🤵 series coming up next,you definitely don’t want to miss out ☺️

I love you♥️ and see you next time👋



My bride 👰

Hey everyone,

I’m so excited for the new month beginning today and so in the spirit of a joy and love filled month, I’ve decided to fasten up the dear wife series from the weekend to today. I hope this inspires you to start the month with love for yourself, family,friends,God and humanity because July is definitely going to be all shades of love❣️❣️

So let’s cut to the go part of unraveling the mystery letters💌 of expecting grooms who have sent notes and promises to their awaiting bride with all blend of love and chocolate in it💝🍫. Ensure to have a handkerchief next to you to dry some fluids from your eyes or get yourself coiled up with blanket or whatever.just saying though 🤣🤣

#Letter 5

Dear Future Wife,
The calm dressing of your hair is as the soothing winds of the Himalayas
You’re a stunning glow even in the darkest nights. A beautiful work of art.
You’re a balance of strength and femininity.
You’re a blend of silly and serious. You’re a dreamer with your feet still on the ground. The kind of person that can find the suns rays in a rainstorm.
You’re a once in a lifetime woman.
You’re my lover.

you’re a blend of silly and serious

#letter 6

I know you are somewhere now probably wondering who the favoured guy is, well I am also wandering who the blessed lady is.
I have always prayed never to miss you for someone else. I have made a mistake in that line before and God made me see it on time.
My darling I pray for you that you never leave where God placed you. May you continue to yield under His mighty hand so that you become exactly what He planned you to be.
I am assuring you that on my part I will allow God work on me, break me, I will yield to every dealing so that I become exactly what He planned and that my heart will bear the capacity to take care of you and be the best husband ever. I love you even when I haven’t met or seen you. May God work his work in you until the day we see♥️. We will work together in that day to fulfil God’s purpose and finish well.
Have this flower💐. I am praying for you. God bless you.
Yours sincerely,

I’m favoured with you

Hmmm… Is anyone getting all mushy mushy already because there’s more coming up to get your eyes watered ☺️☺️

I’ll go round the world with you because you are my world

#letter 7

Hello Baby,
Whether you are reading this before you meet me or stumble upon it after, I want you to know a few things.
The reason I am writing this today is because I can’t stop thinking about you and I can’t stop myself from imagining how happy we will be. Let this letter be a promise to you that I will do my best to be the man God wants me to be for you.
I may not yet know all of the difficulties that come with a lifetime commitment but I’ve had enough relationship experience to know what I want and how I picture my life with the person I will commit to and that is YOU.I have been preparingand those around me have been a continuous source of knowledgeand inspiration on how I want our relationship to be. So here and today, I vow to try my best to do the following:
I promise to do my best to make you beam daily, so count on many surprises. Your smile will be my priority. I get weak knees when anybody smiles, so just imagine the effort I will make to be the source of yours.
I promise I will always look at you with the same adoration as I did the moment I realized I loved you.
I promise to try to ignite the same sparkle in your eyes I see when you’re surprised, inspired, motivated✨ or when you are about to lean in to kiss me👨‍❤️‍💋‍👨.
I promise to hold your hand when we’re 80 years old with the same liveliness that I did when I crossed that line to hold yours for the first time 👫. I vow never to let the excitement of dating me die down; I will surprise you with the location, the reason or the activity itself.
I promise to keep you guessing where we’re going next. I promise to do my best always to interest you. I will keep reinventing myself, gaining new hobbies, new knowledge and new interests to keep you — and myself — entertained.
I promise to have new stories to share with you, and maybe I’ll retell the best ones again if you insist 📰. Our friendship will continue to grow over the years.I vow to challenge you to challenge yourself for the better; to make you think differently. I will do my best to ensure that being bored never crosses your mind.
I promise to kiss you throughout our life together with the same passion I had the first time I felt my lips on yours. When we kiss, I want it to slow down time — just you and me engulfed in our feelings.I promise to play the games you like to play.
I promise to do my best to remain physically attractive to you and I will do my best to be healthy in order to keep up with our children and grandchildren. I want you to know how to fight and defend yourself, just don’t use it against me.
I promise to help you to be healthy, both physically and mentally. I will cook and clean for us. Expect the best breakfast… well, I can’t give all the secrets out.
I promise to strive to be a role model for our children. I want both you and the kids to see me as a source of motivation.I promise to do my best to love your family as you love them and to be by their side as much as I am by yours.
I promise to always listen to you when you simply just want to be heard; when you want someone to vent to about something or when you want advice.I will listen to you especially when you don’t feel comfortable sharing your thoughts with anybody else and to the things you try to tell me when you’re not even speaking. I promise to always listen.
I promise never to let my guard down in taking care of us. I know you won’t be one to be satisfied with the bare minimum.I promise to do everything that I can for you without taking away from your independence physically, intellectually or emotionally.
I promise to make sure that our legacy lives forever through our children. SO HELP ME GOD!
Yours Sincerely,
Your Future Husband

I promise you baby

I think I’m crying at this point already 😭😭. These expecting husbands are not even smiling. There’s so much love in the air,get some for yourself❣️.

#letter 8

Letter to my Future Wife,
Heavens bless the day you were made. I know I may not be perfect but I’ll love you with everything I have.
Girl, I’m still working on myself, I’m making investments into my life that we will reap as family. I may not be perfect even when we meet but one thing is sure: our Union will be perfect.
My honey boo, we will change nations together, we will touch lives together. You will be my best friend, my lover, my prayer partner, my playmate, my biggest fan, my lady in the bedroom (let me keep it PG).
And I will be all these for you and more.I

know I will be someone with a lots of schedule but you will always be a top priority because I know you’ll be a boost and the catalyst for things going right because of your wisdom and insight.
Baby, just hold on tight, I’m coming, keep working on yourself because I’m doing that here too. Let’s give our kids the best life they can ever dream of.
Give yourself to wisdom, the word and to prayer.
Our love story will be written on the Stars.
And babe, I love you for you, not what you have, not status, not the wisdom you may possess. I love you just because I love you. I can’t wait to meet you.
Your husband ( from the year 2020)

my best friend, my lover, my prayer partner, my playmate, my biggest fan.

Wow! That was a whole lot of letters with so much love in them that I just couldn’t help but add an extra love letter to my planned letter which was eight. So here’s number nine letter

#letter 9

Dear future wife,
I’m so excited writing this to the other part of me. I always find myself thinking about you always and wonder the kind of lovely and beautiful damsel I’ll meet someday.
Each day that passes by makes me realize that my life and purpose won’t be complete without you by my side,so every now and then, I pray for you, I wait for the day I’ll meet you and I’m working on myself to be that kind of man you would wish to have as a friend, lover, husband, a father to your children and a priest over our home.
I’ve fallen in love with everything about you already… your smile, your hair, your eyes, your flaws and your love for the one we live for (Jesus). I bless the day God chose you for me because I know I’m whole because you exist.
I’m coming for you soon but until then just love Him, wait and don’t worry because He’s taught me how to love and make our home beautiful one already.
I love you with all of me darling.

I love you with all of me darling.

As expectant as these guys are is a glimpse of how expectant Christ awaits his bride but the question is; are the bride’s ready to behold the groom?

I hope you had an exciting time opening up these letters. please be sure to like,comment, follow and share( I mean why hide something beautiful that you’ve found). ☺️☺️☺️

LETTER SERIES_II (Dear future husband) is coming up next🤵



Dear future wife/Damsel

Hey guys,

I’m so excited to introduce the first edition of the letter series and to take you all on a journey through the mail of some guys and see how and what they have to tell their bride’s to be☺️.

we all are spirit beings but also emotional beings and this has prompted this series. This is to see how emotional we are and how well we can communicate our feelings and dreams to our long awaited bride and groom👰🤵

So put on seatbelt and let us jump right in to the juicy part.

#Letter 1

Dear future wife/damsel,
It is with great pleasure that I write you this letter from the best part of my heart(if there is). My life have been nothing without you in it. Waiting earnestly and desiring your coming to my life is one of the best desires I have had in recent times.
It will please you to know that I am working daily to make sure you and our future kids lack nothing, my love, what so ever money can buy will never be a challenge, I am building a house and not a home, with you, we will have a home built in love and the fear of God.
My future wife, the best amongst other damsels, the beauty of the night, my moon in darkness, the one that completes and complements me, come to me and remove this loneliness from me.At the close of work each day, I go in to my house feeling lonely, cos all I see is emptyness of a partner and a soulmate.
The touch of you will send a grill to my system to alert me of the presence of my most cherished being of completion, you have my part with you, hence you behave incomplete… My love, though i have not seen you, I love you beyond the expressions of words, i do not have a particular reason for loving you, this is because if the reason is gone, then my love for u may die, I love you unconditionally. There is no one like u to me, where ever u may be, no matter the distance, let our heart beat for one another.

Yours forever,

future husband.

Those hands I’ll hold forever

#Letter 2

Dear future wife,

who you are and where you are right now, I do not know but one thing I know however is that each passing day draws me closer to you. I look forward to the day we’ll meet when there will be that spark and our hearts will be bonded in love. My heart is racing in anticipation.
I’ve lived my life alone all this time but now I feel the need to find you, the person who will finally make my life complete. I’m a man with flaws, yes I’m not perfect and I know you are not perfect also and I don’t expect you to be. Sometimes I say things that I don’t really mean and do things that are not really my nature. I apologise for those right now.
I’ve got these flaws which will become obvious to you as we meet and begin to relate but if after seeing all these you still decide to be with me, I promise that as long as I’m in my right mind, I shall love, cherish and respect you.
I promise to always listen to you when you simply just want to be heard. I will listen to you especially when you don’t feel comfortable sharing your thoughts with anybody else, and to the things you try to tell me when you’re not even speaking. I promise to always listen.I probably don’t know all the right things to say, but my feelings and words are from the heart.
Our fairy tale will happen, but remember it doesn’t go from ‘once upon a time’ to ‘happy ever after.’ So I can’t promise an all rosy experience. We are two different individuals with different backgrounds, we’re going to argue and disagree on issues but I will not want that to affect or change the feeling we have for each other. When we have a misunderstanding, I would not want us to sweep it under the carpet, rather we would address it and move on.
There are going to be times when our ‘love feeling’ will not be at its high. At such times it is our commitment to each other that will drive us to make things work between us. This fleeting feeling that we’ll have when we meet will fluctuate with time and that’s why I have made up my mind to love your person and not just your good looks (as that too may change). I will have you as my friend and we shall grow together.

Looking at my mum and seeing the sacrifices she has made some of which involved letting go of the things she would have loved to do, I promise to support your dreams and let you do the things that make you happy.
In times of storm I will hold your hand and we’ll face it together. We will take turns being strong in times of trials and pick each other up. We will have each others back and look out for each other when the chips are down. I will support you in every way I can and I hope you do same for me.
I have seen a lot of marriages fail but ours will not be like that. We’re going to make our marriage work for the sake of ourselves and the kids we’ll have. I would want you to understand me and not compare me with other men. I promise to do same for you. We will not allow extended family and friends to come between us. We are going to handle our issues in our own unique way.We will be role models to our children and we will build a model home full of love where they will live happily.
These are not just the words of a man who is high on emotions but that of a man who is ready to take responsibility.They are words with serious implications and I have decided to take this bold step with you. God helping us and with some effort on our part, we shall make them come to pass. I’m not going to marry you because my mates are getting married. Rather I’m going to marry you because at this point in my life, I need someone with whom I can fulfil God’s purpose for my life.
I know waiting isn’t easy. I’m waiting for you because I love you unconditionally. As I wait for you, I’m going to invest my time in making myself the husband that you will forever be proud of.Wishing you all the joy and happiness you can get till we meet and begin this exciting journey together.

Lots of love from your future husband.

I shall love, cherish and respect you.

#Letter 3

Dear future wife,
You are like a beautiful Melody that i can’t get out of my head,I keep on being amazed at your patience, despite all the ups and downs of life, i will always find reasons to love you. All i want is to be the reason that you fall asleep each night with your phone held in your hand.
You have been living in my dreams for a long time what about making it real? I don’t want an incomplete love. I want a complete, intense, whole and indestructible love. How i wish you know how much i care about you, you seem not to have realize how much your presence have shaped my life, you are the best girl that touch the surface of my heart. I would want to be that person that is always on your mind ,the one you answer very quickly. Please lets take this walk to the next step come and be mine forever.
Your future hubby.

Please come take this walk with me

#Letter 4

Dear Future Wife,
How are you doing?
I bless the womb that made you.
I bless the day that you were formed in your mother’s womb.
I might not know you now but I want you to know how much I love you, how much I care for you, how much I cherish you.
And I’m aware of how lucky I am to be yours.
I might not be perfect in the long shot, but I’m made perfect with you.
You may not be perfect to the world but you are my perfection.
You are a beauty that shines out even in light.
You are God’s greatest gift to me second to salvation.
You are my pride and always, you Will be.
This is my pledge to you;
I pledge to be a Faithful husband, a caring and loving Father and also a loyal friend too.
I pledge to stand by you forever ; no matter the condition or season; under the sun or in the rain, in happiness or in tears, in Eden or in Sahara.
I pledge to value you with my life, not even death shall separate us, I believe a love alive cannot be immortalize by death.
I will honor you and respect you.
I pledge to honor our ordinance and vows.
Most importantly I promise to submit my virginity to you in exchange of yours.
I pledge to build myself in all spheres just to call you my eve.
My love and life, my royal diadem, my beauty and my treasure;
Let me be your Knight in shining armor,
Let me walk you down the aisle,
Let me have the one Life time honor of being your partner as we journey the tides of life.

I love you dear,
I also want you to know that my heart will always beat for you.

Yours forever,

Let me walk you down the aisle.

Wow! Is anyone feeling butterflies in the belly flying or I’m I just the only one. It’s been an amazing and interesting journey reading through the mail of four guys. You definitely can imagine how much more fun we are gonna be having cos there’s more on the way💃💃

So if you enjoyed the ride, ensure to like,comment and for this series bring in your judgement on who has the most romantic and feet sweeping letter and also share with friends, family and loved ones. See you on the next ride on ‘Dear future wife’.👰


Hey everyone,

hope y’all have been fine and making good use of this period to reflect and take a new turn to life.

So I’ll be sharing some thoughts on holding up amidst the pandemic, economic meltdown,health sector failure,hunger ,starvation, thievery,rape,abuse and increase of other social vices. The pandemic has eaten so deep into our world and found a way of stealing away the joy people had and the smiles from their face. But then ,we can’t give up and allow it steal and ruin us.we have to be strong and be fighters,ready to keep pushing through till we recover all and gain more too.
The need to keep holding up is so essential so we don’t loose our grip on life and also do not miss out the essence of life.so how exactly can one hold on in times like this where their plans have been distorted and their dreams seemingly shattered?
I mean pupils and students especially those who are in their final lap of studies are left in suspense as they don’t know when they will finally graduate. Nigerian’s tertiary institution students are wondering what will become of their plans to finish school,go for youth service and start making it in life.civil servants have had their salaries reduced to percentage levels and lots more but I tell you the truth something good can and will come out of this so just sit back and hold on to life’s stirring.

Benefits of holding on
1. There is always light at the end of the tunnel: it is life’s principle to always produce light at the end of the tunnel. So once we begin to see this period as a tunnel season that will transport is to a higher and better destination,then would be able to experience and enjoy the light at it’s end which is the period of a announcement and impact.

  1. There’s always sunshine after the cloud: once the cloud gathers and thicken,it causes everywhere beneath it to be hardly visible and darkens everything in it. This is similar to the situation some people are in right now which hides every trace of the sky in their lives but just as the thick clouds release rain to water the land,so will this situation release blessings and opportunities to us once we are patient with it. And as soon as the rain falls, sunshine is season and everything begins to bloom back again.
  1. The road continues beyond the bend: imagine taking a drive on the road and then as soon as you see a bend road post you turn your car and head backwards to where you were coming from. Silly right? That’s exactly how some of us act towards life and this period especially. Just because we’ve reached a bend,some have allowed themselves go back to those secret and dirty habits such as drugs,abuse, pornography, masturbation and what not which is quite unfortunate. Just as you will fasten your seatbelt and drive past a road bend,fasten your life belt and drive with focus past these tough times and zoom…the road becomes smooth and straight again


  1. Stay positive: positivity is a thing of the mind,so once we reset our minds to a default setting of positivity,it will begin to reflect in our manner of approach to life and it’s challenges. So instead of seeing this the so many problems in these times and allowing our minds wallow in frustration, train your minds to look beyond the now and the problem and envision solutions and a place of rest. It keeps us in high spirits to be able to face life and fulfill purpose.
  1. Get a support system: perhaps you might be thinking about friends at this point but sorry to burst your bubble,I’m talking about the main guy whose like the central nervous system and that’s God. He’s the realest support system you could ever think of. As you journey through tough times, you’ll realize your grip is loosening and your feet failing but once you hold on to God as a ship to an anchor,then be sure to arrive safely. You must learn to trust and depend on God constantly to hold you by the hand and walk you through this challenging time.
  1. b.friends: these are the second support system you will be needing. Those who will lend you their shoulders when you need somewhere to cry and be there when you need someone to lean on. Thus,you must surround yourself with godly friends who have the same principle and belief as you do. They serve as encouragement to our weary souls..so if you haven’t got one,get one now.
  1. Update your system
    Just like computer and applications on phones have to be updated so also you have to update and upgrade your mental and value system. Pursue knowledge,read books, listen to messages, carry out research,work on those ugly character,learn a trade or skill and ensure your value rate is up-to-date. This is because after this pandemic, the world will be in need of people well skilled and trained in all sorts of sectors and affair and trust me you don’t want to be left out.

Holding up in times like this is frankly not easy but then again it’s always worth it. The scripture takes record of a man named Job who was righteous before God and had to go through affliction. In this affliction,his wife and friends who were supposed to help him through it tried to turn him away from God. But after all,he regained multiple of all he had lost. His story brings to light the necessity of association and holding up in hard and trying times
I hope you’ve been stirred up in your inside to keep your hands on the line and don’t let go because a new season is approaching and only those who have endured till the end of this tough season will be announced.

Thanks for taking time to read. Be sure to like, comment,share and don’t forget to drop by next time☺️☺️☺️


Hey sugar pumpkins😄Hope we are doing great and enjoying the year as it comes to an end. So lately I haven’t been having the regular vibes to write and all but for every time I feel led to,I make sure I pass the message.So, this is to you out there who has been abused physically, mentally,emotionally or sexually and even verbally if there is though. This is to let you know that you’ve suffered abuse does not truncate completely your use because whether you see it,believe it or know it or not, God doesn’t bring to existence anything or anyone without purpose and course in life.“Years ago,I was abused by my older cousin brother who by family trusted enough to watch over me”. It’s quite unfortunate that the person they trusted took advantage of their little baby girl who became a captive to her cousin brother as he threatened her not to tell anyone. It happened to first day when he called her and began to touch her at sensitive areas,carried the poor child on his laps when no one was around except both of them. This continued for months as the acts progressed to molesting acts of the young girl’s private part and the exploration of her lips and tongue which was meant for God’s glory. All this she had to face at a tender age.It was like he riped her off of every dignity and courage she was meant to have,it robbed her of every joy she was meant to enjoy and every good thing she was to have for herself. He did all this acts and left to another phase of life without anyone knowing except of course the girl child who was abused. As she grew older, she began to really understand what actually happened to her in the past, it hurt her so much to couldn’t trust the opposite sex and worse still, couldn’t tell this story to anyone.She felt used and wasted right before she began to blossom,felt crushed before she ever got the chance to lift her head high. She carried this weight,hurt and injury for years that though she thought she had grown old,the wound still remained fresh as ever. And so she cover the wounds with outward vibe,with a supposed confidence just she wouldn’t trip, a wall so high that no one could get through her heart to see or even touch the wound which laid so fresh and still bleeding. This is quite an unfortunate and heart breaking story. But it only lasted for a while till she personally encountered Christ…at least that was a step away from the painsOf course she was from a Christian home but that never brought her into a relationship with him. And so she got saved and became a daughter of the most high God. One will think she was to heal completely and instantly but to your surprise, she didn’t. She carried that baggage of pain, unforgiveness and anger.This was how she battled through life and was still working for God and asking the holy spirit to work on her .she did so and then the day of her help had come. She had to surrender. She had to surrender her emotions and all she ever held unto. It was time to do so but it was hard. One could hear her groaning with pain that day before the master as she asked the holy spirit help her let go.And right there in that state of brokenness and abandonment, the holy spirit came in and aided the precess of surrender and suddenly a breeze of joy and peace blew within her and then strength was given to her to arise to do exploits.After that day, she walked along the streets and everyone knew she wasn’t ordinary, they knew there had to be something that she possessed which was unique. Her beauty and aoura was compared to none. It was the fragrance of the father that she carried.We do not choose to be abused but we can choose to become useful vessels before God and to our generations. 2 Timothy 2:20_21 says”2 Timothy 2:20-21
[20]But in a great house there are not only vessels of gold and of silver, but also of wood and of earth; and some to honour, and some to dishonour.
[21]If a man therefore purge himself from these, he shall be a vessel unto honour, sanctified, and meet for the master’s use, and prepared unto every good work.Thus, we choose what kind of vessels we become. Why settle to be clay when you can be gold by simply letting the saviour work on you.HOW TO BECOME USED AFTER BEING ABUSED1. acknowledge that you have suffered abuse: your acceptance to the reality that you have been abused emotionally by someone you loved or abused sexually by someone you knew and held in high esteem or physically abused by your spouse or the so called lover you thought you had is one step towards you becoming a useful vessel. This allows you to know that you need help.2. Go back to the Potter: the Potter forms clay to vessels and that is how we were created and so you need to go back to him to make you into a vessel. You need to accept and believe that he has your best interest at heart.Psalms 51:1-3
[1](To the chief Musician, A Psalm of David, when Nathan the prophet came unto him, after he had gone in to Bathsheba.) Have mercy upon me, O God, according to thy lovingkindness: according unto the multitude of thy tender mercies blot out my transgressions.
[2]Wash me throughly from mine iniquity, and cleanse me from my sin.
[3]For I acknowledge my transgressions: and my sin is ever before me.3. Come to a point of surrender: you must come to the point where you let go of the hurts n grieve and accept the model the potter is offering you. Because until you release that which you are holding on to,you can never receive that which God has for you to make you useful. So my dear ,let it go and take the life of joy and peace you are offered instead of constant bleeding of the wounds your closed up long ago.Psalms 51:10,15[10]Create in me a clean heart, O God; and renew a right spirit within me.
[15]O Lord, open thou my lips; and my mouth shall show forth thy praise.4. Open up the wounds: you must open up the wound you closed up and let the wall down for the wounds to heal. Its getting deep all cause you covered it up without treating it,so let it open and allow it to heal. Talk to a trusted person or spiritual head about it so guilt doesn’t hold you back from enjoying the joy that was stolen from you.5. Be useful: begin to involve yourself in activities you love and with people who bring out the best in you. Go into fashion, writings and whatever it is you have passion for that keeps you going and glorifying God. And as you start that,you become useful to God and even to your friends,to young ones looking up to you, to your school mates,colleagues and even the nation at large.You are born strong. You are indeed a lion/lioness! Walk in its reality.In forgiveness lies your peace,freedom and relevanceCol 3:13
[13]Forbearing one another, and forgiving one another, if any man have a quarrel against any: even as Christ forgave you, so also do ye.

STANDARDS: too high or too low

Hello love,

I hope we all doing great and fine. Hope you missed me though.

So I’ll be discussing something that has gotten me thinking lately personally and in regards to other individuals and the achievements they have attained,heights they’ve reached or gotten comfortable with. These whole thoughts comes done to STANDARDS.People set standards on what they fill they can do or comply with which most time limits the achievement that could be attained.standards are meant to be easy and comfortable for us to keep but in view of what we want and desire,we must learn to consciously uphold them.

* Areas in which standards can be set.

1. Academics

In our area of study,standards have to be set to ensure we come out excellently. The bible tells us to study to show ourselves approved workmen that need not to be ashamed,this can only be accomplished when set standards to get high grades,to attend classes and lectures, to do all assignment,take in all assessments and sit for our exams.we have to set standards as to using maximum use of library and consistent study of our books.

2. Spirituality

To grow and develop spiritually, one has to set standards not to give up pressing into God unto we take up the full image of Christ.we have to be determined to reflect Christ in all aspects of our life without bringing down those standards for anything. Compromise should not be found around us because it frustrates the standards we have set and leaves us messed up. Some of us have become shadows of who we were born and destined to be;fire filled individuals that are like trailblazers who leave positive prints wherever they go. Get back to studying God’s word,praying, speaking good things,avoiding vain conversation and make God proud and smile. He is earnestly waiting for you that’s why he’s word says” eyes have not seen,ears have not heard what God is set to do in the lives of those who love him”

God himself has standards for his children which is, that we come to full perfection of Christ’s image.

3. Dressing

In this generation of ours where indecency is on the increase,you can choose to be decent and modest in our dressing. A popular saying says” as you dress,so shall you be addressed “. Why expose every organ that’s meant to be kept under clothes? Why allow people list after you all in the name of fashion.

You are beautiful and handsome just the way you are. What you see as flaws and imperfections makes you and so never for one day trade that just because some wanna_bes feel you dress too ancient.

4. Relationships

This is one serious aspects where standards have to be set otherwise we become slaves in the hands of others and our wings clipped so we are not able to soar as we ought to.

In our relationship with people, be it on the basis of friends or something more deep and intimate, never underestimate your worth simply because you want to please someone or be with someone because you feel they complete you. Set standards as to the kind of friends you want to have and attract,friends who have good behavior, have good perspective of life,ready to learn,cheerful, loving and who love you for you and not friends who crush every self esteem and courage you’ve built and summed every time you are with them. Friends who build you academically, intellectually, spiritually, morally and everyday make you a better version of yourself.

More importantly,standards should be set in deep and intimate relationships so as to avoid boundaries been crossed. Why will you want to go into a relationship where your feelings are trampled upon and your body abused all in the name of love. Or why will you go into something in which you become a toy but never get to add value to yourself.

Many ladies have become victims of broken hearts and used bodies simply because they became too naive and brought down their standards. Keep your standards high and let nothing bring it low,who ever is interested in you will meet up to it even if he/she has to sacrifice. Guys never settler for something less simply because of pressure from friends or become a flirt or rapist because you couldn’t guard your feelings and let it drive you out of the right and high standards you had.

Finally,if you haven’t set standards for yourself, do so now before you get wasted and end up in regret. There’s a lot inside if you that can only be birthed forth with discipline from the standards we have to become great and achieve true and good success.

That everyone in society is doing it or acting in a particular doesn’t make it right!

Some have set standards but somehow got to compromise and lower it down for some flimsy reason, its not too late! You can jack them back up. Perhaps you entered school wanting to be the best in your class or wanting to finish with a first class but somehow you got discouraged and gave up. Its coming to you now,give it your best last shot so you don’t regret not trying after you realized your standards went low.

Are you in a relationship that has robbed you of value,courage and self esteem? What have you gained in that friendship or intimate relationship you are into. Can you proudly boast of it and how much value and worth you gained or do you weep secretly at your heavy loss. You are Worth more than you think…break loose and set those new and positive standards rolling up and never bring it down for anything.

Thanks for taking out time to read.please like and share! You also check my previous posts❤❤

Is suicide the way out?

Hey guys..❤❤

Hope we all are doing fine except for the stress of the new week.its been so long since I posted something and that’s because this stuff has burdened me for long so I felt I need to let my own view out and get to know yours to.

A recent trend has been occurring and making waves amidst the youths and has caused hurt and sadness to individuals and families. It had so been welcomed that it seems it is the next option once things don’t go the way we plan. This latest trend which had cost us so Mich is nothing but SUICIDE.

suicide is an intentional act of ending or taking one’s life by him/herself. Thus suicidal activities are never a mistake. Prior to this,depression comes in and begin to cause so much worry and concern to the victim. A sense of hopelessness steps in to seem like nothing is working out fine and then this makes way for suicidal thoughts to come in as the major way to end their worry and hopelessness.


personally, I’ve heard people say those victims of suicide do so because the have lost hope in God. This is very true because if a little atom of hope is left in them towards God who is a higher being and has higher powers, then these suicidal events would totally be the last thing on their mind.

more to it,I see suicide as a result of loss of hope in oneself. The lack of hope to see oneself going out of such situation or recovering from what once weighed us down,living without people who once mattered to us but have been stolen by the hands of death or walk out of our lives.

is more heart breaking to see that most suicide cases occurs due to heart breaks either from the man or the lady. They attach their existence to this one person in which they are in a relationship with,that the thought of this person leaving them breaks them to their inner being. This then makes them feel worthless and of no purpose without this supposed loved one who walked out on them and then to them the take up the suicidal thoughts that come and act on it.

It is painful we are in a generation where insecticide such as sniper and others with germicide ate used to terminate a life we never created and are never going to be able to. The scriptures days there is time for everything, so why not live life to it’s fullest till our then to return to the father comes.

time when our world needs youths who have decided to go all the way to create a positive impact and change to our world are now ending and wasting their lives all cause they attached their living to fellow men and mundane things of this world.


There is only but one way out of this hopelessness in God and then ourselves, it is nothing but find God’s love.

If you have found his love, then accept this love that is offered to us which is way beyond any human lover can give unto us. Once we let his love be shed abroad in our hearts,then a sense of meaning and purpose comes in. The holy spirit is waiting on us to beacon on him for help instead of taking substances to hurt us or jumping down high Clift and bridges due to failure

in one aspect of our lives either academics or business life.

To those who always criticize those victims of suicide and mock them,here’s a breaking news to you..it just might be you. The Bible says ‘ he who thinks he stands take heed lest he falls’. Keep holding onto God as your anchor and drive. Also let the love that God had extended to us and by the help of the holy spirit shed abroad in our hearts reach out to those around us. It wouldn’t cost you anything to show love or care for those you come in contact with. Check up on long time friends, pay visit and reach out if you can to those in need. Try to be there for people and !make Christ known to them and leave them with a sense and glimpse of new hope and better life even after their tough times and phase.

Thanks for taking time out to read this,I hope you gain something and share with others around you💗❤❤

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Could something be wrong with me?

Hey guys

Hope you all have been doing fine and I swear I missed you all .it’s really been a while,..been down and all thinking could something be wrong with me’. That’s question most ladies ask themselves these days.

I’m I not too beautiful or I’m I not well endowed? Is my grammar bad? ‘I’m I too decent? These and many more questions we ladies ask and so here’s my answer to that,it is YES and NO. don’t be confused…. See it this way,something could actually be wrong with you which is a YES to the question and on the other hand nothing could be wrong with you which is a NO to the question.


LADIES….yes you,we worry must times about what the male folks are not doing and forget want we should be doing. We blame them so much does our mess and expect everything to all be fine.

1. Check your attitude

Fort the whole old gist of’ who ever is for me will love me the way I am’. Don’t get me wrong if a man is yours he’ll definitely come by but not with the attitude. You need a man and your so rude,non_challant about delicate issues ,arrogant,lack purpose and respect for anything masculine or its sort.

How about instead of complaining of why guys aren’t approaching you and why they approach you wrongly,take time to work on your attitude, deal with the rudeness and disobedience, get tidy and neat, get used to dealing with you yourself without depending so much on an incoming man to deal with you for yourself.

2. Gain value

Value is a currency in this part of the world. Beauty is good and lovely to get a man attracted to you but when he comes,what do you have to offer. You need something to older outside your body that can get used with time or your endless chats about how your day went or about why you need a particular product for your skin or how your wardrobe is outdated and how you should be walking on a man’s gold.

Learn a skill, do something with your hands, let your brain think something to add meaning, value and purpose to his life. Think of things to move you both forward from where you met and not backwards.

3. Get a hold of yourself

Girl, why do you have to be everywhere,left,right and center and at every nook and cranny. Your always looking for ways to gain the attention of men through silly and wrong means when after they come you have nothing to offer. You’ve let yourself so cheap that any man or thing that comes in trousers can get to you pretending they love you and promising you marriage which you’ve become so desperate for. That’s why they wrong ones trample on you and leave you wasted and still searching.

4. Watch what you eat

Some ladies can’t let go of anything that looks like food without eating it and then are so lazy to work out. They come up with excuses like its natural,that’s how God made me to cover up the real truth that they are gaining excess weight which can be controlled with reduced eating. To make things worse, they go about wearing tight fitting clothes in the name of slaying while there are skin folds everywhere due to much body fat.


the other side to this question is there really might be nothing wrong with you

1. Know your worth

If you know your worth you’ll know that not all men deserve you and so they inadequate ones are so scared of walking up to you. Girl, if you know your worth..you won’t settle for any kind of man.

So I’m telling you now,your a rare gem and you deserve so much more than you think you want.

2. He’s just not the one

Here’s where I use the regular break up line😂😂its not you,its them. Your meant to attract the right person but somehow the wrong ones and passer by will still want to shoot their shot and see if you’ll fall for it. So keep been strong and trust your instinct. Don’t be lead by emotions and mere feelings but see things from the reality of it and if he’s for you, he’ll definitely come around or perhaps in your case you’ll have to come around..

Thanks for taking time out to read this and I’m definitely sure this word is for someone out there.

Just a little longer

Hey guys.

I’m here once again and I must say that I’ve missed this place. So today I’ll be reaching out to one whose about to give up,to let go and to quit trying. Though it seems blur right now and uncertain, trust the supernatural being and the lion in you to dare to push further.

There are some walls we come across in life and they look too high to jump over and most definitely breaking them down seems impossible. Also times when we are just miles away from our goals,the enemy within tries to give us reasons why we should quit and give up on all we laboured for when truly he’s threatened by the force and transformation we will cause once we emerge.

Reasons to push a little longer.

Have you ever thought of how your life will be if you reached where you always dreamed of ?

Have you ever looked back to see how far you’ve come and how’s much is left for you to break through those walls and emerge a winner ?

If you haven’t,take a time this moment and ponder on it,keep it in mind and keep meditating on those questions and be sure to be sincere with your answers.

The efforts we put into different aspects of our lives,be it financial, physical,spiritual,mental and all what need us to give on our best and maximum effort. This is why drive is essential in every journey we embark on as discussed about in my previous post(you can check out my previous post on drive:a way to success)

Spiritually, there are times when the Christian race seems tiring and frustrating. For some of us who were privileged to have been in the world and are now in the light,we find ourselves wanting to go back to our Egypt (past lives),we tend to see reasons why our past and crooked lives are better of to our current Christ_focused life.

But guess what,just at that point and time when you feel like giving up,there’s a package and gift just about to be handed to you,there’s a new place and realm that you are about to launch into,there’s a new and double portion grace to stay and pray in God’s presence. So you have to keep holding on to get your gift so the enemy doesn’t get hold of it and rob you of your possession ( John 10:10)

Don’t let him do that! Don’t let him mock you and deprive you of your joy! Keep pushing and pressing I’m the secret place.

Financially, you might have been saving up to get something you value and that which will add value to you or invest into a business and all of a sudden the money seems not to be saving up or things around begin to divert the funds which should be saved for the future. You’re most likely tired of that and about to spend the money on something not necessary and important… Don’t do it. Keep pushing and saving, your about to get there to get was you desire.,

Academically,you’ve tried to keep your grades up as best as you can and some how they are dropping or feels like your effort isn’t equal to your results and grades .so you want to to stop trying and putting in your best. Do you think its worth it cos I don’t think its Worth giving up for. You didn’t get a first class as you expected but what’s wrong if you can get a second class upper?.why would you want to settle for a third class or pass? Keep pushing dear,just a little longer till you get there

Thsnk, to all the female folks who feel they are getting out of shape and are getting obese; who have started up some sort of ketone diet and some work out but right now feel like cutting off the diet and not exercising…think about it again,you gave up your comfort and desire to get to the size you are now with everyone telling you you look good and all of a sudden you want to start munching in those chocolates and all the want not. Come on,it ain’t worth it

To the slim ladies wanting to out on some weight but are kinda glued to junks. If you really want to put up some real weight, you’ll have to keep those stuffs away and eat well balanced food to give the necessary effect. Don’t starve yourself for some irrelevant reasons and ideology.

Finally, a note to yourself; never give up on yourself. You can give up on anything else but not yourself. No one is going to push hard and forward for you except yourself

Never let your current person deprive your future self from becoming that person he/she is meant to be by giving up. Give it time to develop and grow because once the future is made a reality, you’ll smile back and see reasons why you never gave up and thank yourself for that.

Thanks a lot for taking out time to read. Don’t forget to like, comment, share and click the notification button. Love y’all😚😚😚

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